Adventures in Dyeing

A few months ago, I bought this little dress during one of my thrifting outings with Holli. I loved a lot of things about this dress, but the color was NOT one of them! I just couldn't see myself wearing this silly pepto bismol pink.

Then Holli had a brilliant idea. Dyeing!

We met up yesterday to embark on this new adventure. I dyed this dress, and Holli dyed a pair of jeans.  We were very meticulous because we didn't want to screw up, but dyeing is actually pretty easy. I was most worried about how the color would mix with the pink.

But, I was pleasantly surprised with the turn out. A nice red/burnt orange, which I think is great for all seasons.

Here is the finished product! (the belt and shoes are Holli's--cute huh?)

i hope my white legs don't blind you

A close up of the pattern:

Now that I've learned that dyeing really isn't that hard, it really opens up ways to change up my wardrobe, or a way to fix up some thrifting finds that I may not be crazy about. And it only cost like 2 bucks, so it was worth it.

I am very pleased. The end!

utah to-do list

food to eat:
sweet tooth fairy
the pie
midget hot chocolate
my favorite greek place in st. george
chinese hot pot and dumplings

people to see:
kelsy, kimmy, grimmius, tawnya, shelley
my family, duh!
and anyone else who is going to still be in utah. text me!

things to buy:
root-beer extract for these yummy cookies I want to make. I can't find it anywhere here. Are we not in America???

play and snuggle with:
my sister's dog.

chores to do:
legally change my name. what's in a name anyway? but husband really wants me to, so I guess I will.


Am I forgetting anything? Did I mention that I can't wait? The countdown has begun: 6 days!!

useless picture series

You know those photos that you love for some reason, but that you'll never really do anything with, because they're basically useless? here is one of them.

The reason why I love this picture is because I really like the way the back of my hair looked that day. How's that for shallow. But what good is a picture of the back of my head??

Also, that's Toni Morrison in the picture---that is another reason why I like this useless photo. I got to meet her! But she didn't have time to take an "official" photo---thus the useless back of the head picture.

Here's another one I came across the other day

I'm going to be shallow again. I look at this picture and go, "man, my hair and rear end looked good!" Don't tell me you don't do this either with pictures of yourself. I just love this side shot of my dress huggin' my bum, so sue me. But my face looks silly, and Victor's kind of does too. So what can we do with this picture? Nothing, I'm afraid. Just look at it years down the road and admire my young figure.

Anyway, thanks for indulging me. If you have any photos like this you should share.
Happy weekend!

Watching the Kardashians makes me feel better about my own relationships

The fact that the Kardashian family is cashing in on letting millions of people watch Kim's marriage fall apart on national tv is pretty sad. But it's good for something. It's teaching me and confirming to me how to handle my relationships. First and foremost with my husband, but also with my family. It's kind of like a weekly therapy session of what not to do.

Case in point:
 http://www.eonline.com/videos/kourtney-and-kim-crabby-kim/174585

If you didn't feel like watching it, I understand. Here's the 2 minute video shortened into less than 100 words: Kim calls her sister a nasty troll b**** who has no respect for her and is just jealous of her life: all because said sister wakes her up early to say goodbye. Other sister says that Kim is just pissed because she is married to a barking dog.  Wow. Even if this is all just made up for tv, why not make it something actually worth getting mad about? (The barking dog comment was kind of funny, though)

Anyway, you can judge me for watching this crap. I judge myself. But it reminds me that treating people like this is not cool. And it makes me appreciate my own siblings for never being this ridiculous, even in our worst fights. This weekend, me and my husband got into a couple of different argument sessions. Looking back, they mostly originated in the fact that I was being tired and impatient, but that's besides the point. I have only been married shy of six months, so I'm no marriage expert, but as I watch this show, it confirms to me that "oh, yeah, that's NOT the way to handle this kind of situation with your spouse," and "ok, I'm on the right track with my husband."

Before the weekend was over, we had pretty much resolved our little spats. Victor doesn't hold grudges, but I'm a girl, and so sometimes I tend to take longer to get over things. But as I watched my weekly dosage of the Kardashian/Humphries marriage mess with my sleeping husband next to me, I went to bed feeling much more content about my life. Content that even though fights and arguments happen, I'm learning how to deal with them in a relatively mature way. Also content to have a different view on marriage and family than most of the world, which makes it worth working on and fighting for. And content that my husband believes in the same thing.

And content that he's not a barking dog. Poor Kris Humphries, bless his heart.

that time I drove across the state for a concert

I haven't been to a concert in a looong time. And it's sad, because I used to go to concerts all the time. But the truth is, there's not much around here, and when there is something like up in D.C. or something, it's always too expensive.

So when I got an email from Ingrid Michaelson Friday morning (ok, it probably wasn't from her personally, but her name is in the sender line, so I like to think that is was---like we're real friends or something) that she was performing at James Madison University in Virginia that night, I immediately looked it up to see how far away it was: approximately 100 miles away. Dang. Victor probably won't even get home from work before the concert starts, I thought.

But what if he did? My mind started evaluating the possible scenarios. At least a two hour drive for a concert? That's silly. But it's Ingrid!! You've seen her before and you know how happy she makes you! Ok, if Victor gets home by five, it's meant to be.

And then a Christmas miracle happened. Victor got home at 4:45. And being the wonderful husband that he is, he agreed to come with me even though he was tired from waking up at 5 and he had a headache. I drove us while Victor slept.

The whole drive I was kind of paranoid. What if we get there and it's sold out? Victor would prob be maaad. Or what if we don't have time to get something to eat? Once again, Victor would prob be maaad. Add that to the fact that the drive was dark and creepy because there was no freeway attaching point A to point B. I really was scared we would see Sasquatch. Or a murderer. Or, more realistically, that we would hit a deer.

But we made it. We hardly had time to eat some chik-fil-a and unfortunately no time to get the poor husband some aspirin. But Ingrid was wonderful. She puts on great show and makes you feel like you're long time friends. Those are the best kind of concerts.

The moral of the story is that it was so nice being there with my husband. Because we dated long distance, he never came to any concert with me. So being able to listen to Ingrid sing about love and friendship in her catchy Ingrid way next to the guy who I always thought about when I heard those songs originally was great. (Except I felt like a failure when she sang, "if your head is achey, I'll make it better," considering I was in too much of a hurry to get to the concert than to get the poor guy some aspirin for his headache. I hope he forgives me for that.)

And note to self--make sure to make that drive again in the spring when the sun is up. Because it looked like it was gorgeous. And I really want to see the Shenandoah National Park when it's not pitch black.

Anyway, I love Ingrid. And my husband. And you too.

--Annie

Thanksgiving highlights, a week late

The night before Thanksgiving, we went out to a club in Jersey to see some of Victor's friends. And SERIOUSLY, it was a scene straight out of Jersey Shore. Me and my friend Megan were the whitest girls there: Megan stood out even more because she has blond hair and fair skin. Good times! Unfortunately, there is no photographic evidence.

On Thanksgiving, we took a stroll at Liberty State Park. The weather was incredibly beautiful.

On Friday, we headed into the city to go to the Manhattan temple, and it was nuts (the city, that is. the temple was wonderful). We decided to drive since we were short on time, but consequently had to face the parking nightmare. But other Friday highlights included: the sunshine, the food in Little Italy, hot dogs and papaya juice, the Metropolitan Museum of Art, cheesecake at Juniors, and a late night showing of the Radio City Rockettes. Basically, seeing the Rockettes was the movie "Annie" coming to life for me, so that was pretty sweet. And who would have thought that watching girls kick up their legs and synchronize their walking would be so inspiring?!

 

Radio City Music Hall is legit. That's a live organ player before the show.

And Saturday involved pizza in Hoboken, and a swell time at the Romanian restaurant in Queens. And now I'm just realizing that most of these highlights were food.

Sunday was a massive mess in traffic. It took us twice the amount of time that it usually does to get home. That wasn't fun. Dressing up my husband helped to pass the time.

The fact that he doesn't get annoyed by me is something that I will never understand.

The end!

How to decorate for Christmas on a budget

This year I finally get to decorate my own place how I want for Christmas, and this year I am also a poor newlywed. The more money I spend to decorate is less money to buy gifts for people, so therefore, the decorating had to be done for cheap. It also helps that my apartment is small, so there's not much space to decorate! Anyway, here are some tips and ideas.

--Paper snowflakes. These are my favorite! I love cutting snowflakes, so it was more fun than it was tedious. And I think they just look so pretty. You may think they look like an elementary school class, but I disagree. And the cost: FREE.

 Also, I thought about putting a garland on the curtain rod, but they were like $20! The ribbon was one dolla.

--The front door: I love Christmas wreaths, but all the good looking ones were starting at like $30. I thought about making my own, but even that would have cost a minimum of 15. So I decided to decorate my door with this big big bow. What else could I use a bow that big for? So this look cost me like $8.

Simple, but festive!

Then the rest of the stuff is stuff I already had, with the exception of the Christmas tree, the darling winter pillow from Homegoods (a splurge compared to how much I spent on the other stuff), the lanterns from Ikea, and the placemats and ornaments on the table. The ornaments were $3 from the dollar store. Oh, and the kitchen tins are from Ikea. I like the international Santas.

btw, I finally got something for the entryway instead of the mini fridge! 

My nativity scenes: on the left is the one from the Dominican Republic, and the other two are from Romania. The table runner is also from Romania. Love.

So, I really wanted these little Christmas trees from Ikea that looked like these felt cut out placemats. I saw them way back in October but didn't buy them because I thought it was nonsense to buy Christmas decorations in October. Well, I have learned my lesson. So I settled for the lanterns instead.

Anyway, let the Christmas season begin!